Advise for the "leaving"

Hmmm its been quite a while hasnt it?

Which gets me back to my post's title "Advise for the 'leaving'..."

Well, i am totally confused with what i want to do...

I have told everyone else that if you leave then do so because you love (or may love) where you are going rather than leaving because you hate what you will be leaving behind.

Emotion is a bad driver for good decision making...